Tag Archives: NNU

19 June 2014 – Toby’s Update…

Hello friends, We had an appointment with the gastroenterologist this morning. We are going ahead with the gastroscopy on Monday morning, in order to eliminate the nagging question mark that still lingers as to whether there is anything wrong in … Continue reading

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16 May 2014 – Toby’s medical history to date – Actual age: 32+5 weeks / Corrected age: 25 weeks…

Upon writing a letter to a friend of my parents-in-law, who works in the medical profession, seeking advice as to how to move forward, I had to bring my records of Toby’s medical journey up to date. Here they are, … Continue reading

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4 April 2014 – A mother’s plea (I’m sure it’s not the first!) – Letter to a gastroenterologist at another hospital…

Letter to a gastroenterologist at another hospital: My name is Flo. I am from Oxford but now live with my family in north-west London. I am a mother of a two and a half year old daughter and a six … Continue reading

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14 February 2014 – Letter to gastroenterologist…

Forgive me for using this email address to try to get a message to the gastroenterologist. We are actually due to be seeing him in his NHS clinic on 27/02/14 – after having heard from Toby’s Speech And Language Therapist … Continue reading

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29 January 2014 – Progress…

I feel a little more confident today. Yesterday evening the nurses started to teach me how to aspirate, pH test and tube feed Toby – in case he needs to come home with the NG tube. Have done this twice … Continue reading

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23 January 2014 – An update for our GP…

The nurse from the hospital NNU who visits in the community came round to weigh Toby yesterday. He had gained 40g over 8 days. He is gaining at least – albeit very slowly. She said that he’s ‘on the fence’ … Continue reading

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12 December 2013 – An update (if you can bear another!)…

I thought it was about time to give you a little more news. Things are looking quite Christmassy around here, with our Christmas tree in place, our lovely nativity scene in situ and advent calendars galore (what are grandparents for?!) … Continue reading

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2 November 2013 – Toby’s HOME!!!!

Tobias Asher Jacob… 35 days… 37 weeks & 1 day gestation… Due date 22 November… Birthday 29 September… Birth weight 1.790kg… Current weight 2.525kg… What a soldier! What a good God! :-) xxxxx

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Phew!

I am sitting back in ‘our spot’ in the Special Care nursery at our local hospital Neonatal Unit – Toby’s home for the last one month and three days (minus a rather ‘hairy’ two night sleep-over elsewhere!) All the tubes … Continue reading

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1 November 2013 – Update…

The intubator has now been removed and Toby is breathing mostly on his own, but he now has the support from a CPAP machine (continuous positive airway pressure). His respiratory rate is higher than the normal range at the moment. … Continue reading

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Toby’s hernia op today…

This morning I met the anaesthetist, who was happy to go ahead and anaesthetise Toby for his hernia operation. He had no feeds from 8am in preparation and at 3.45pm I kissed Toby goodbye at the door to theatre. I … Continue reading

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To my friend, Jean…

Dear Jean, Quick update for you as I was just letting family know the following for now… Anaesthetist happy to go ahead with hernia op. Will be this afternoon, though no time as yet. Will no doubt stay in at … Continue reading

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Ed’s message on Facebook…

Our son Toby has his hernia operation today bless him. We think he may finally come home tomorrow. If you are the praying sort, this is the final push. We ask that he wakes well from the anaesthetic, comes out … Continue reading

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30 October 2013 – Some progress…

Ed and I prayed specifically on Monday that God would put people across Toby’s path who would make the right phone calls, send the right letters etc. in order to move things along. I arrived at hospital yesterday to discover … Continue reading

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29 October 2013 – Update on hernia op etc.

So, no date set for Toby’s hernia operation yet. It will not be today, as we had thought. The anaesthesiologist has said that he/she wants Toby to have a cardiology report before they decide if they are happy to administer … Continue reading

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A most confusing day…

It has been such a mixed week. On Wednesday Toby turned a massive corner with his feeds – literally overnight. He is now waking up and demanding every feed and loving to suckle. Taking complete bottles and feeding really well … Continue reading

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He’s not home yet :-(

I shared news too soon. Forgive me. Toby is not home with us. He has a hernia (which was discovered on Wednesday). We had been told that he could come home with it, as it was still soft, and that … Continue reading

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26 October 2013 – He’s coming home!

I still won’t believe it until it actually happens – but I roomed in with Toby last night, with a view to taking him home TODAY! I won’t believe it until he is over the threshold of our home and … Continue reading

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23 October 2013 – Weight gain…

Tobias is now 5lb… That’s 1lb 1oz gain since birth. Good boy :-)

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13 October 2013 – Discovered a heart problem…

We discovered yesterday that Toby has a problem with his heart. It is a form of congenital heart disease, called an AVSD. It’s basically a hole in the heart, between the two chambers, which means that the blood from both … Continue reading

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