Tag Archives: prematurity

15 July 2015 – Letter to geneticist…

It has been a long time since I have been in touch. Thankfully, I have had no need to be! Toby has been progressing really wonderfully and after various possible/suspected syndromes were ruled out back in November last year, my … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

15 July 2015 – Toby’s Heart… (& my mum’s 70th birthday birthday!)

We went to see the cardiologist yesterday – our last appointment was six months ago – and I wanted to give you ‘the latest’. Before I do, can I please mention my mum, Shuna’s, 70th birthday, which is on Tuesday … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

5 May 2015 – Quarterly update! Ed’s ‘Beast in the East’ run this Saturday, amongst other bits! :-

Hi friends, I realise it has been about three months since our last update. Long gone are the days that you were receiving at least weekly updates – then fortnightly, then monthly – as the tumult continued with Toby. No … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

25 November 2014 – Consolidated list of Toby’s symptoms / observations to date…

Hi again, Here is the consolidated list of symptoms/observations to date. I hope it is helpful to have a quick (& roughly chronological) reference and overview of Toby’s medical history – I certainly found it useful to write it all … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

24 November 2014 – Follow-up letter to medical staff overseeing Toby’s care…

Good morning, Further to my last email I thought it was important to let you know that what I described as ‘sadness’ & ‘physical slumps’, in my list of things I’d noticed Toby doing are, I think, in fact related … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

21 November 2014 – Letter to medical staff overseeing Toby’s care…

Dear all, There are a few little sensory behaviours of Toby’s that I have noticed recently, which then challenged me to think about any such sensory processing behaviours that I have noticed – whether a while ago or more recently. … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

20 November 2014 – What’s next for Tobi-Wan Kenobi (Toby)…

Someone, somewhere’s praying for me…because this morning I felt all full of worry and uncertainty again about little Toby and now I am feeling much more of a peace…So thank you, whoever you may be! :-) I didn’t say much … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

14 November 2014 – Toby doesn’t have Williams!

Toby doesn’t have Williams syndrome. Ed & I are going away with friends for the weekend. Those two things seem to perfectly compliment one another… Upon receiving the phone call from the geneticist saying the results of the micro-array CGH … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

We are all home!

Friends, we are home! Toby to continue on a four-hourly regime with an inhaler, plus two antibiotics to continue with. We’re to check in with our GP once he’s finished his anti-biotics, for a ‘once over’. He seems much more … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

9 November 2014 – Update – Sunday morning…

I was tempted to feel peed off yesterday when at 8pm, just as Toby had fallen asleep & I was about to do the same (bearing in mind I’d been up for 38 hours at this stage & Toby hadn’t … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

8 November 2014 – The little champion…

Hello again, you troopers! The view from the 11th floor of Toby’s room at a central London hospital… Yesterday culminated in Toby & I heading to our local hospital A&E after all. Toby’s temperature had risen again, he was breathing … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

7 November 2014 – Keep on a prayin’!

Hi all, Doc not too happy with little Toby’s progress this morning. Says he’s not happy that he’s had a fever for a week now, plus would have expected his breathing to have improved more than it has, given that … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

6 November 2014 – Just a wee Toby update…

We’ve been seeing the doc each day at his request, so as to keep an eye. And we’ve been giving Toby steroids each day to keep airways open, plus antibiotics in case it’s a bacterial infection (just don’t know – … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Fact 30/30 – I delivered Toby on my own…

January 15th 2014 Fact 30/30 I delivered Toby on my own… 2013 was, I think, the most difficult of my life. Very early on in the year, just three days after my birthday in fact, an early pregnancy scan revealed … Continue reading

Posted in #30til30 | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

18 August 2014 – Our bright-eyed boy!…

Dear friends, The last week and a bit has been nothing but positive on the Toby’s progress front! At our last meeting with the gastroenterologist – at the end of July – it was agreed that, in view of the … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

5 July 2014 – Letter to NNU Consultant – Nagging thoughts/concerns…

After our appointment with you it was decided to book Toby in for a blood test to do a chromosome study, in order to check the presence of a rare syndrome, called Prader-Willi. My understanding is that the suspicion of … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

4 April 2014 – A mother’s plea (I’m sure it’s not the first!) – Letter to a gastroenterologist at another hospital…

Letter to a gastroenterologist at another hospital: My name is Flo. I am from Oxford but now live with my family in north-west London. I am a mother of a two and a half year old daughter and a six … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

14 February 2014 – Letter to gastroenterologist…

Forgive me for using this email address to try to get a message to the gastroenterologist. We are actually due to be seeing him in his NHS clinic on 27/02/14 – after having heard from Toby’s Speech And Language Therapist … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Letter to my GP…

I have a few questions, I hope you don’t mind. The answers can wait – I appreciate you are very busy. Domperidone: the instructions are to give Toby 3 x 0.8ml doses over a 24 hour period, 30-60 minutes prior … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

10 January 2014 – Smiles & news…

Toby has recovered well from his hernia op last Friday. We think the op has seemed to help his bowel movements, which now seem more regular, so that’s got to be good (even if you’d rather not know about our … Continue reading

Posted in Toby | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment